Topic: news Dealing with Negative Stereotypes of Cross-Cultural Dating

While I understand your sentiment, and agree with it in many ways, I do not think you are Chinese. Your syntax and figures of speech are clearly Western, if not American. My gf, Chinese, is fluent in English, and familiar with American syntax, but I do not think even her blogroll will exhibit such natural vernacular.

The commenter above is obviously bitter. However, I can understand why he would say such things. There is some truth to what he is saying (particularly about HK). But all people cannot be defined by the bewildered masses. And every society has its misfits and boneheads and liars.

If a Chinese girl really wants to 'get out'- my advice is to be completely honest with the western males you encounter, and be yourself---I'm sure you have delightful lovely qualities that most men would fall completely in love with--when true to yourself-- and you might find the man to be equally pleasant and surprising. Even still, if you fall in love with a Western male, chances are you can't and will not get a visa anyway--especially from America--they know the game, and the tricks and are highly suspicious of foreigners, and these days, even more the Chinese. if you are not a rich girl with investments and incentive to stay in China you cannot get a passport--or emigrate to America. Catch 22.