Topic: news Dealing with Negative Stereotypes of Cross-Cultural Dating

jim you hit the nail on the head, idiots marry their prostitutes and then slander all women based on their experiences with just prostitutes.

i have met many women here who dont want to even leave china they just want a stable family. dont get me wrong, you have bad apples too, but i could spot them easily. they are the ones who order the most expense things on the menu, negotiate that you are to pay for things when they are out with you, ask you for a phone, take their friends out on your dime, etc. but the real problem is that many guys trip over themselves trying to impress a girl by buying her nice things, taking her out for expensive meals , buying her family gifts. then they sit and blame the girl. i dont care what your culture is, i'm not paying a dowry i'm not giving your family gifts unless it's christmas or their birthday . if you use money to attract women then you will attract women who are a attracted to money , that applies world wide. we as guys have always made dumb decisions for women (lust and love), but we must understand that we are in control from the beginning. ask the right questions and listen for the answers, observe their behavior closely and you will see red flags all over the place if the girl aint right